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Back in 2006, My journey took me to Canberra for an admissions interview for medical school. I assumed I would book accommodation upon arrival, but upon reaching the city, a major event was taking place and all the youth hostels and cheap hotels were fully booked.

Coming from the city-state of Singapore, the idea crossed my mind the possibility of just sleep at the terminal – only to discover that airport, not like the one back home, is not open around the clock. Not knowing what my next move should be and getting a bit desperate, I hopped on public transport and found myself drifting near a gaming venue, reasoning I might spend those hours somewhere that stayed open 24/7. Admittedly, this plan in the best shape for nailing the admissions interview the next day, but as a broke student, a pricey hotel was out of reach.

The world needs more people like that woman.

It seems I seemed lost as a female student noticed me walking aimlessly through downtown and inquired if everything was alright. I shared my predicament and right away she suggested I could sleep on a spare mattress at her university residence at ANU – an ideal turn of events, considering that was where the important interview would take place the next morning. She even offered some food: one of the filled rolls she had from her evening job. I had access to warm shower facilities and a protected spot and safe to sleep.

In retrospect, I now understand the significant risk she took as a woman letting a male stranger she’d just met stay in her room. In those days I existed within my male privilege bubble and did not consider to the potential danger. As a dad now, it astounds me she did that – but still incredibly thankful.

Ultimately, I did not go to the Australian National University, and I didn’t meet that kind stranger again, but her act remains etched in my mind her amazing act of generosity. My sincere desire is that karma has returned her act of kindness abundantly. Our society requires more people with such compassion.